Late term/Second trimester Miscarriage

If you are visiting this section because you have experienced the death of your baby, we are very sad for your loss and would like to extend our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. 

A late-term miscarriage, also called a second-trimester pregnancy loss, happens between 12 and 24 weeks of pregnancy. This experience can be physically and emotionally challenging. Every person’s journey is different, and it is important to take care of your body and mind during recovery. 

You may be overwhelmed by your feelings of loss and feel as though no one understands what you are going through. It is important to understand that grief is a natural response to your loss and that every person has their own way of coping. There is no timeframe for grieving, nor is there a right or wrong way to grieve. Some parents grieve publicly and are open about their loss and feelings, while others may keep their emotions hidden. Some overcome their grief more quickly and others can take years. Most parents will carry on grieving in subtle ways for the rest of their life. 

Losing a baby at any stage of pregnancy can bring grief, sadness, anger, guilt, or numbness. Talking to someone you trust, such as a partner, friend, family member, or counsellor, can provide comfort and support. 

Many parents find solace in creating a memory of their baby. This may include keeping an ultrasound photo, writing a letter, or planting a tree. Joining a support group can also be helpful, as connecting with others who have experienced miscarriage can provide understanding and shared experiences. If you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or have ongoing sadness that affects your daily life, speaking to a professional may help. 

Finding Support 

You are not alone. Many organisations offer specialised support and resources for parents who have experienced miscarriage. Connecting with others who have been through similar experiences can provide comfort and understanding.  

If you or someone you know is struggling emotionally, please reach out to a support service or healthcare provider.  

The Pink Elephants Support Network  

https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/  

Red Nose Australia   

https://rednose.org.au/page/grief-and-loss-support-services  

COPE – Centre of Perinatal Excellence  

https://www.cope.org.au/planning-a-family/pregnancy-loss/  

Bears of Hope 

www.bearsofhope.org.au